Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Polka Dot Maxi Dress + Beach Hat // How To Afford Living In NYC












Living in NYC is not cheap. Rent is just one factor. There’s the overpriced groceries, expensive Uber rides, and $20 cocktails. No question, the cost of living is very high. So, if you don’t have some fancy job or maybe you’re still a student or even a full-time blogger like me, how in the world do people afford to live here?

When I decided to move here, I was very hesitant because of the outrageous rent amounts, but I wanted to enjoy my 20’s in my favorite neighborhood for as long as I could. I figured I would treat myself until I get married and have to move somewhere more affordable with my husband. As happy as I am with my decision, I still had to make some sacrifices. Moving here meant giving up my massive master bedroom with a bathroom and two closets, and instead of paying more for a smaller converted bedroom with a closet next to the kitchen. My apartment is literally half the size for double the cost. Some people would say that’s not worth it, but on the plus side, I gained a doorman and a much shorter commute. My quality of life has also gone up because my friends all live in a 5 block radius, I can walk to the grocery store in less than a minute, and I can come home at 2 am and still feel safe. If you ask me, it’s worth every penny, and here’s how you can make it work too.




  1. Get Roommates.

    The only way I can afford to live in my city apartment is by having two roommates. We divided the rent based on room size and we all split the electric and internet costs.

  2. Find Freelance Work.

    I love working in an office, but as a blogger, my time is more limited and I love the flexibility that comes with freelance jobs. Not to mention the fact that you can charge more than your average salaried hourly amount and you can take on multiple projects at a time.

  3. Take The Subway.

    Some people cringe at the word subway, but if you’re not rolling in money, get over it. Taking the subway is the easiest way to save since taxi and Uber ride everywhere add up really quickly.

  4. Try Uber Pool.

    If you really hate the subway or don’t feel comfortable taking the train at night, switch to Uber Pool or another ridesharing service like Via. (If you sign up with Via, use the promo code esther9v7 to get $10 of ride credit.)

  5. Walk Whenever You Can.

    My favorite part about living here is that I can walk everywhere. I generally have appointments and errands to run on any given day, so what I try to do is schedule everything in a line going from uptown to downtown. I’ll take a train to my first meeting, then walk to my following appointments, and take a train home later that night.

  6. Two Words: Trader Joe’s.

    Their prices are unbeatable in New York City.

  7. Order Groceries Online.

    It’s not always cheaper, but it can be. Grocery prices in NYC are insane. A box of cereal should not cost $7. Enough said.

  8. Save Money As You Shop.

    I spoke about Ebates in a previous post. I highly recommend checking it out.

  9. Babysit.

    I wish I knew how to find a nighttime babysitting job because from what I hear, the pay is amazing in NYC and you never even have to meet the kids.

  10. Become A Blogger.

    It’s not as easy as it looks, but I’ve gotten collab requests for everything from toilet paper to bed linen, so I don’t really have to buy much anymore. I did not accept the toilet paper collab btw, but it’s nice to know I have options. πŸ˜‰





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Saturday, June 24, 2017

Jessi Malay – SANTA Monica City Tour











Happy first day of summer loves! Hope you all are having a productive week I’m so excited to be back with my second city tour..this time featuring Santa Monica!! I loved seeing all your sweet comments on the blog and IG when I shared last week’s adventure in Los Feliz! This time, we wanted to explore somewhere completely different and check out some places by the beach. Santa Monica has always been one of my favorite areas. It has the best of both worlds, the beach where you can go tan, relax and swim, and just blocks away you can get the city vibe, shop, dine, watch movies or go dancing!




Sweet Rose Creamery


Sweet Rose Creamery Santa Monica



Our first stop included a much-needed sugar kick to start off our day. We stopped into Sweet Rose Creamery after hearing about their one-of-a-kind flavors and Instagram-worthy interior! There were so many good flavors to choose from like Salted Caramel, Old Fashioned Vanilla, Stone Fruit Sorbet..and the list goes on. My final pick?? The Brown Butter with Orange Wafer..sooo incredibly delicious! Sometimes I wonder who comes up with these crazy flavors..so good! If you guys haven’t caught on by now…I have a bit of an obsession with ice-cream and love trying out new little ice cream shops in different parts of the city so I couldn’t pass this place up!



Jessi Malay Ocean Ave Santa Monica Photoshoot



My two-piece set from A’gaci is giving me serious 4th of July vibes…I may have to bring it back for the holiday! I dressed it up with my red strappy heels from Tony Bianco, but would also pair it with white sneakers when I want to go for a more casual look.




Georgian Hotel


The Georgian Hotel Santa Monica

The Georgian Hotel Santa Monica



One of my favorite landmarks in Santa Monica is the Georgian Hotel! This building dates way back to 1933, so you know what that means! There’s been quite a few haunted tales and sightings within the hotel, so if you’re interested in haunted happenings I recommend reading up on it and even checking it out for a night or two. Now aside from the haunted tales, there are so many things I love about this building like its colorful walls and vintage features.



Jessi Malay wearing Lovely Pepa Collection Skirt



Love this polka dot ruffle skirt by Lovely Pepa Collection.. so easy and chic to throw on with heels or sandals. The material is super soft and lightweight too making it the perfect staple skirt for summer!



Jessi Malay wearing Lovely Pepa Collection Skirt

Jessi Malay

Jessi Malay Earrings



All about drop earrings this summer and just got these amazing hoop drops from Adornemonde! Definitely a staple!




The Penthouse at The Huntley Hotel


Jessi Malay at The Huntley Hotel



If you want the best panoramic views of the ocean and city, the Penthouse at the Huntley Hotel is it!! We stopped in to check out the breathtaking views and grab a pre-dinner drink! And I couldn’t be more obsessed with their interior…clean white, gorgeous chandeliers and cabana-style tables overlooking the ocean views!! The restaurant also has a lounge menu that features small bites like cheese plates, truffle fries etc if you don’t have a dinner reservation, but want to check out the stellar views!



Jessi Malay at The Penthouse Santa Monica




FIG Restaurant


Bread Balloon



After our long day of touring Santa Monica, we sat down for an amazing dinner at FIG Restaurant, located inside the Fairmont Hotel just steps away from the beach! Santa Monica can get pretty busy with all the tourists, especially on the weekends so this restaurant was the perfect way to end a busy day..tucked away near the pool area of the hotel and giving off a very relaxed California vibe. FIG is most well-known for their changing seasonal menu and locally sourced ingredients. For the first course, we shared this Bread Balloon which is possibly the most unique appetizer I’ve ordered. The bread was fluffed to perfection and came with 5 different spreads..all so different and equally tasty, I couldn’t get enough!



FIG Octopus



To compliment the bread balloon, we also had the Charred Octopus served with caper berries, butter beans, sherry vinegar and a touch of mint..perfectly refreshing for a summer dish!



Jessi Malay at FIG



For the second course, we had the Hanger Steak..grilled to perfection, paired with grilled potatoes and Chinese long beans. Definitely a must!







And the masterpiece of our entire meal was the Wood Grilled Whole Fish, placed on a bed of charred broccoli finished off with a tahini and ginger mignonette. So incredibly delicious!



Peanut Butter Bar



By this point, we were getting really full..but the dessert menu was way too good to pass up! So we ordered 2 lol! The Peanut Butter Bar and Tres Leches Tiramisu. Now first, can we talk about this presentation?? Almost too pretty to eat! I highly recommend ordering both of these desserts and sharing, you won’t regret it!



Tres Leches Tiramisu



A big thank you to FIG Santa Monica for having us Hope you guys stop in and check out this amazing restaurant!



Santa Monica City Guide



As always, thank you for stopping by and hope you love enjoyed my city guide of Santa Monica! I want to know some of your favorite sights and hidden gems in Santa Monica! Let me know in the comments below

Where to next?


Xxo, Jessi

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Friday, June 23, 2017

Berta Spring 2018 Wedding Dresses






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The campaign for Berta’s gorgeous Spring 2018 bridal collection, fronted by Kate Bock is effortlessly beautiful, sexy and romantic at the same time. With many of the looks featuring ethereal layers and scintillating beads, the latest Berta wedding dresses look impossibly glamorous and utterly majestic against the raw NYC cityscape.






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